Two Christians quarreled and being angry with each other they went home. One of them began to say about the other one all kinds of bad things.
Then they met at a crossroad. They realized they had been wrong quarrelling they forgave one another and reconciled.
The one who had said bad things about the other one apologized.
Then the other Christian said:
`I forgive you and I forgave you from that moment but the bad word is as if you took a pillow with flakes and you would spread the flakes in the wind. It is the same with your slander about me.
It won`t be possible anymore to stop your words. So you see the bad words have a great role in our salvation or damnation.